Let's BE Frank: Sex is OVERATED!!

Yes I said it!
Sex is overated...When LOVE is'nt involved!

"We breakin up again, we makin up again/ But we don't love no more I we fu*ki& then"

~Kanye West

"I'm tired of just fu^&(#, I end up all fu(#$ up/ Yeah I want you to put it down, so when's it time to make love?"

~BeShayBE

I have NEVER been made love to. I myself can say that sex for me has been passionate at times, but there was never LOVE involved. Never mutually that is. I have been in love once and me and that person connected more spiritually and emotionally than physically, actually we never moved onto sex, but that was the most fulfilling relationship that I've had in my entire life. Sex is satisfying, but I at this point in my life am looking for fulfillment. Satisfaction is temporal it's fleeting it never stays, it leaves and comes and goes. Fulfillment is long-lasting it carries you when things are shaky, and you can build upon it because it's a sure thing.

The thing is that in this life since it's lived day by with you never knowing which one is your last, we get so caught up in what is good to us now. People just go around sexing just because it feeelllllsss good (and it does) But how do you feel inside? Anyone who sits down long enough soon realizes that what'd good TO you is'nt necessarily what's good FOR you. I came to this relazation loooong ago, but there was no change in my actions. I found that when you do the same thing over and over agan and get the same result it's prolly time to change your approach. I have changed and I feel much better for it.

WATCH THIS FOR A LAUGH! She tellin the truth but the delivery, MY GOD! lol lol

The Idea of YOU Incomplete...

I just started this 2day, but I did'nt feel like finishing it (lazy) I was thinking maybe I can find someone to finish it for me...*thought bubble*


Hypothetically speaking If YOU and I were to meet
I would know YOU from jump, you'd sweep me off my feet
Just one look into the windows to your soul
Immediately I'll have the feeling I'll already know
I have what YOU need the piece that God left out
Your rib the missing piece to puzzle It's me no doubt
Our love would eclipse the sun because it's too damn bright
Not to mention the fact that together we out of sight
My love deep enough for a whale to swim in
Forever and ever our story never ends
Cause me to smile when the world is on my shoulders
Our souls joined 2gether a bond to never be broken...

IF YOU and I

If not for YOU I would'nt be able to live to thrive
If I did'nt know YOU how would I be able to survive
If YOU ever left me I would be a lost cause
If I ever left YOU life would stop no pause
If my mother and father forsake me YOU would still by my side
If I accept your love for me we'll be 2gether in this next life
If my best friend hates me and nobody gives a care
If I alone feel alone and want to die YOU are always there

YOU infiltrate MY thougthts everyday
YOU show your love to ME in infinite ways
YOU seep into MY soul so heavenly and sweet
YOU love MY idiosicrasies and add to me
YOU don't answer MY every call but come right on time
YOU always in MY heart you'll never leave MY mind

I don't understand why YOU do what YOU do
I may not look like it but I love YOU too
I feel YOU in my spirit my soul so corrupt
I am so imperfect I wonder why YOU don't give up
I constantly call on YOU in time of need
I know YOU are my rock the only for me

Put on 4 my city: DJ Durl! 3 new podcasts!

So you may already know this, Durl got that good good for you on a weekly basis. I think he turned his swag ^ because it was already on...I missed 3 whole podcasts lol. Tune in and enjoy!!
This is later than late but this ish is fire!!

What the flying piss???? Say it ain't soooo!!!!

So I just made my first post about CuDi and then he decides to blog about possibly retiring?!?! WTH! In his post he mentioned that he's gettin tired of the industry bullshit strain, and his friends thinking that he has changed. He's also pursuing a career in acting and is shooting a show for HBO... Read more on the link below to see what he said... Also check out the link of the full blog written by the man himself...I can't type no more!

Cudi on HipHopDx.com
Words from the man himself!

YEs I can write lol I mean I understand where the man is coming from, and he gotta do him...
I guess I'm being selfish...
I love Scott...
I stan for you baby...
Lemme stop b4 y'all think I'm crazy...

New ISH: Kid Cudi freestyle (mayb not so new)

A. Anybody that has seen my FB updates or tweets, knows that I LOVEEEEEEEEEE Scott Mescudi, but why had'nt I done a post on him until NOW!!!???

B. I loveeeeeeeeee Scott Mescudi...

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X. I loveeeeeeeeee Scott Mescudi...

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AA. I loveeeeeeeeee Scott Mescudi...

AM I IN LOVE AGAIN????!!! OR JUST CRAZY AS HELL!!

RANDOM! RANDOM!: Photo editing!

I was so bored 2night I decided to play with some photos of mine...Enjoy the different versions of BeShayBE The Dark and Lovely DIVA!Stare Into the Abyss ShayBE... 60's Diva sending my love ShayBE...

Profeesional-Sexy-Kisses ShayBE...


Gazing into the outerbelt of my mind ShayBE...


I LOVE writing!!!!! ShayBE...


You got the key to my heart ShayBE...

SUPER SOUL! ShayBE...


Gimme a kiss BABY! ShayBE...

Body paint ShayBE...

RANDOM! RANDOM!

Soo it's 4:12 am here in Columbus, OH and I have soooo many things on my mind it's ridiculous. I'm bout to take u on a trip... I got one question tho, IS YOU ROLLIN????

When am I gonna get a boyfriend? I think I'm so picky, that MAY be why I don't have one. I want one so bad, and I'm talkin bout the kind that makes me say WOW, is this one mine??? lol In terms of personality, trustworthiness, loyalty, looks I need a dude that's gonna floor me because these past couple of months, I have NOT been impressed. Well except the one dude, but he ain't on me. Guess I was'nt all that impressive *shrugs shoulders* :)

I have actually been enjoying my time without a phone slightly. My baby is broken and I don't have money right now :( New job starts MONDAY! :) Bout to be workin wit my homieloverfriend haha lol. I get pangs in my soul tho becuz I used to lay in the bed and post and now I have to sit @ a desk and write these damn blogs...

Also If I wanna call ppl I gotta use a HOUSE phone... I ain't did that in yrs and I ain't bout to have no dudes callin my house. They either A) are gonna be ignored by my grama cuz she on da phone or B) encounter my father which I dunno what that dude'll say, he's unpredictable....

I have been celibate for a lil bit over a month! YAY and plan on staying that way for a long long time. At least until YOU come into my life.. I messed up a couple wks ago, but playas mess up too sometimes. Pray my strength in the LORD! :)))

I need more platonic male friendships in my life. I love MEN...

I think these random thoughts are all about MEN lol

Speaking of MEN, I fall in love instantaneously with a man that can pick me up... The bouncer @ one of the bars we went to picked me up and needless to say I think I'm in loooooovvvvvveee again hahahahaha (JK!)

I love my brownskin MEN but I keep ending up with these lightskin dudes! What's that about?!?! Something about chocolate gives me chillllssss, BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!

Man I love GOD for making me $0 D0p3niqu3 (Dope and unique) there really is nob0di lik3 M3! I love my individuality!!! And take the opportunity to excercise it at the drop of a hat!!!

Well I think that's all folkz! MayB an edit or two later lol!

*SMOOCHES*

Put On 4 My City: Sophisticated Sundays 3*15*09

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Something new to do on Sunday's!!! Hosted by my boy Trav Dave and the homie Rico aka the city's favorite lightskin! Come and join the party!!!

Get Directions!

Internet Fu*kery: Lil' Kim FOLLOW-UP

Lil Kim ain't do too bad on Dancing With The Stars...

She still is trippin wit the new speech patterns...

And the OD LeToya Jackson make-over (thanks to Shawntell for that one)...

She said "I'm black Barbie and he's my Ken"... no words bruh

She does'nt look bad tho, it's just drastic as hell...

It's gonna take time for my ears and eyes to adjust...

I almost like a more classy KIM, let's see if it stays...

I think the hood gon come back out, just wait and see...

COMPARE:

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WORDS + MUSIC= THERAPY!: When It Hurts So BAD

When It Hurts So Bad - Lauryn Hill

What you WANT might make you cry and what you NEED might pass you by, if
you don't catch it...
And what you NEED ironically will turn out what you WANT to be if you just
let it...
~Lauryn Hill "When It Hurts So BAD"

So I feel this song in the pit of my soul every time I hear it, no lie! It describes what will happen if you give your love away to someone who does'nt deserve it. or someone who is'nt reciprocating it. The above quote describes my plight in full detail I swear.

What I WANT more than anything is what makes me cry.

All the time what I really NEED is passing me by because I'm too stupid to see that it's what I really need...

Therefore I can't catch it because I'm caught up ...

But what I NEED and I mean really really NEED ironically is going to turn out to be what I WANT it to be....

IF I JUST LET IT!

If I shift my focus from getting/chasing what I WANT in a man ie; what looks good, smells good, tastes good, sounds good, and feels good (five senses) and go after what I NEED from a man ie; love, honesty, loyalty, long-suffering and LOVE (characteristics) then what I NEED is going to turn out to what I WANT... I just have to LET IT happen... DEEP!

I'm so tired of getting my feelings hurt and my heart broken because I like many people rush the process. Women in particular. I'm not in any rush to the altar, TRUST ME, but I would like to have someone like/love me, because quite honestly I know I'm a GREAT PERSON and after that I'm a damn good woman!

The problem can quite honestly be attributed to the fact that I just wanna be accepted by the opposite sex, does'nt everybody dammit! And LORD knows I have a whole lot of love inside of me to give to the man who finds me and has the right intentions/motives/ good head on his shoulders/ GOD fearing/ good looking *crosses fingers*

I just need to chill out and LET IT BE....

New ISh: MIMS, Move If You Wanna

New ISH!: Keri Hilson co-starring Kanye West, Make Love (preview video)

I think umma buy download the NEW Keri Hilson cd "In a Perfect World" comes out on March 24th, sounds like it's gonna be a banger so far!

Kanye as the love intrest? Interesting...

Isn't Keri flyy as hell?!? I think so!

New ISH!: The Dream and Christina Milian, Amazing remix

The Dream and his new boo Christina Milian Amazing Remix

It's actually pretty...Amazing!

They Snatched a sample from Kanye's "Amazing" from 808's and Heartbreaks and did their own thing with it. I'm feelin The Dream's verse more than Christina's tho..

Oh and the Michael Jordan Muhammad Ali clips, FANTASTIC!

Put On 4 My City: DJ Durl, new podcast!

I saw this come come across on my mini-feed today on facebook so I had to post it! This dude look like The Dream with glasses on lol

COMPARE!

Kicks and Giggles (ROTFL): Who is Yung Dick???

I stole this from someone on Facebook. This had me cracking tfu! His flow sounds like Lil Wayne's lmao...

~I'll make u go def when young dick's in your ear

~When no one else was on young dick I was on young dick!

~No on the corner got swagga like us, I'm jackin this game and I'm about to bust!!!!

~No homo dude you rock high heel Jordan's that's homo shoesYou eat Lucky Charms thats homo foodYour baby colors rainbow that's a homo hue!

Oh my GOD I'm DYING!!!

I can DIG it!: Truly in Love, Lil Mama

Surprisingly, I like this song...

I like the style of the video, Retro 50's chic NICE, matched the song well...

I like how she changed the flow up in the middle of the song...

She was really beautiful, the hair not so much...

She did the sing songy hip-hop really well...

I've never at all listened to her music, like seriously. I did like her on America's best dance crew tho...

OVERALL: GOOD JOB!

Internet Fu*kery: Lil' Kim AOL interview...

Yea umm Lil Kim has obviously been cut on a bout 10,000 times...

And has her skin been lightned a la Michael Jackson style...???

Maybe it's really thick make-up, like dermablend...

And what's with the damn Valley-girl speech patterns? You are from the H-O-O-D!

I wonder what any up and coming music is gonna be like from her...?

Best of luck on Dancing With The Stars but.....

WTF?!?

Songs that make ME....!: Sobeautiful, Musiq Soulchild...

Sooo I saw this over on my friend Mikey McFly's blog and decided I should share with you guys... I am a HUGE Musiq Soulchild fan. SoBeautiful is one of my favorite songs off of Onmyradio.. So when I saw that there was a video I had to see it! The imagery and set-up of the video is absolutely breath-taking and the model was very beautiful as well... Sit back and mellow out!

Just My Thoughts: I need a BIG brother

This isn't really a poem I'm just typing it like this getting out my thoughts, cathartic release. Not even tryna rhyme, just typing this line by line.... This is something I've yearned for all my life, unsettled my soul don't feel right. Like I'm missing a piece of me, a piece to feel complete. I know I have GOD but he made us earthly beings. I have feelings and a prayer just this one. More than anything to have a BIG brother....

Times like this I need a big brother
Not another lover
Just somene to lean on
When times get tough
When life gets rough
A male figure that's been through it
And has some insight to pull me through
Someone I can relate to
Someone to feel me
A shoulder to lean on when I get weak
Tell me I'm beautiful and not want a thing in return
In my soul I feel this ache, this burn
Someone to hang out with
Something like a mentor
To look up to him and say when I get married I want one like him
No blood between, but feel kinship
Like spirits meeting in our earth suits
To know I got somebody that has my back
A brother to feel me when it's me against the world
To have conversations that seem to never end
More than a brother more like my closest friend...

Just My Thoughts: Quotes that make Shay go hmmm....

Songs that make ME....!: Raheem Devaughn, Prototype.....Are you???

pro·to·type
Pronunciation:
\ˈprō-tə-ˌtīp\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
French, from Greek prōtotypon, from neuter of prōtotypos archetypal, from prōt- + typos type
Date:
1552
1 : an original model on which something is patterned : archetype
2 : an individual that exhibits the essential features of a later type
3 : a standard or typical example
"prototype." Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary. 2009.

Merriam-Webster Online. 4 March 2009

Prototype - Raheem Devaughn

So this is like one of my alllll time favorite songs of the past 5 years lol. There are 3 versions that I've heard so far of the song. One by my girl Jazmine Sullivan, Andre 3000, and Raheem Devaughn. I've decied my fav is gonna be the Raheem version for today lol. This song says what a lot of people that are in love think... Not many people know for sure who they are going to spend the rest of their life with, but there does come a point where you just say, Man I HOPE that you're the one, but if you're NOT then I hope the others are a whole lot like YOU! The definition of protoype, which I grabbed from Merriam Webster says exactly that. The part of the definition that caught my eye is an individual that exhibits the essential features of a later type... Basically you may not be the ONE, but you have the characteristics of THE ONE... I love it!

Songs that make ME.....! Eric Roberson, Head to Toe

This song makes me melt on the INSIDE PART!! It's really about a man that loves and cares about his woman and is like puttin it dooooowwwnn in this song. He knows what his part is a her MAN and is showing his adoration, admiration, and love for her by promising to love all that she is and is going to be. PERIOD. It's so deep and beautiful to me, MY MAN must feel that way about ME!!!

Now a lot of women would stop there, but WE must feel the same way about our MAN too. I look forward to giving my ALLLLLL to the man that deserves me and reciprocates those same attributes... I've learned my lesson in depleting my resources (time, gas, love, money) on a punk that ain't deserve it! So enjoy the song and read my lil' poem inspired by some of my feelings for the song.....

Head To Toe - Eric Roberson

Invigorating my soul to the core

Always leaves me wanting, needing, craving for more

Inspire me, lift me off my feet

High into another stratosphere

Catapaulting me into ecstascy

On top of the world in your arms

In my night sky the only star

The only man that I adore

Like waves washing the shore

Cleanse my spirit from loves before

My heart flying freely

Floating on through the heavens

Most precious creation of GOD you are

I loved you from the very start

Please don't ever walk away

Because I for sure am here to stay

Life for me took a drastic turn

No longer a woman spurned

Now one with hope for better tommorrows

Threw away my pain my sorrows

In exchange for YOU my beautiful diamond

NO thing could ever change my mind

So my question to YOU simple and plain

Will you be here for the rest of my life to STAY??

~~Loving ALL

that YOU are and what you will BE

BeShayBE~~

Kicks and Giggles (ROTFL)!: Unstable Woman!

This video makes me D-I-E every time I see this, OMG!!!!!
I CRY when I watch this video
If I have a bad day i must see this sh*t right here!!

QUOTES!

Put the muthafugga down and gimme MINE!

C'mon let's have a massacre!!!

Don't say you ain't do it, I hid in the closet!

She not here!Ooooooooh I don't like THISSSS!

Damn who I live witttt!

Now get the fugg out and lemme drink my berrrrrr!

Can you do me a favor? NOO! I don't do FAVORS!

And that ain't even the half of it!

Put on 4 my city: DJ Durl!

Soooo if you read my posts or click the links at the bottom of my posts, you know ShayBE loves her some Columbus, OH talent! Well My dude here is from Dayton, OH but we gon pretend he from Columbus for this one lol. Meet my new best friend, Darrell aka DJ Durl UrGurlsFavoriteDJ, he is some major up coming talent! There's more than what meets the eye when it comes to this man just check out the links below and check out his personal blog...and his entertainment blog...(he kinda got a T.I. vs TIP thing goin on lol) Also check out his IMEEM page for some fresh azz mixes!!!

Jay Z - Boss Hova.mp3 - Jay Z
You Know I had to post my favorite mix, which so happened to be a Jay mix of course lol

Darrell's Thoughts VS DJ DURL'S thoughts

Become a fan! DJ DURL'S IMEEM

OH YEAH and his PodCast!